Tag: Motivation
100 Things I Am Going To Do In 2011
by A Man Reborn on Dec.22, 2010, under Journal, Motivation & Goals
This January I came up with the idea of a list of 100 things that I wanted to do in 2010. I thought about it for a little while and came up with a varied list of things. The things on my list were new, old, little, small and in general, things that I thought would be fun or interesting.
I ended up finishing just over half of the things on my list – which I think is pretty good. I did a lot of new things that I wouldn’t have done otherwise and I got to know myself a lot better by taking myself out my comfort zone.
There were a couple of unexpected side effects from making this list. The first was that I had a lot of friends step up and ask me about doing things on the list together with me which I thought was really awesome of them. We got to spend time together and often tried something new or it was something that they were able to teach me, or the other way around. The second was that it inspired some of my other friends to do something similar. In particular, my friend Carolina made her own list, which then inspired her friend Jeannie to make a list. This was all over half a year before I had even met Jeannie – but since then we’ve been inseparable and I definitely think that the two of us making our lists played a part in building that connection.
One other thing that I definitely know this helped with was boredom – I can’t think of a single moment in 2010 that I was bored, as I always had this list to fall back on for something to do.
So here’s a list for 2011. I don’t expect to do all of them. Some of them are things I did last year and loved. Some are things I didn’t finish last year. Some are completely new to this year. They’re in no particular order and again – they’re just things that I think would be interesting or fun.
2011 is going to be amazing and I am really looking forward to it!
- Go skydiving
- Do something special with Jeannie on our anniversary
- Do a 48 hour fast
- Plant and maintain a mini garden
- Spend a day at the beach
- Hike part of the Bruce trail
- Go to the gun range
- Go kayaking
- Get a new tattoo
- Take some kind of dance lesson
- Keep my blog updated while working on this list
- Get rid of 75% of the things I currently own
- Go running in the rain
- Watch a thunderstorm
- Watch the sun set
- Play in a poker tournament
- Ride the single track at Albion Hills
- Try indoor rock climbing
- Paintball!
- Volunteer my time for a good cause
- Give blood 5 times
- Make a gift for someone
- Work at a haunt
- Surprise someone
- Spend a weekend at the cottage
- Play a round of golf
- Make sure I always have time for friends and family
- Make a short movie
- Go whitewater rafting
- Climb the CN tower in under 30 minutes
- Beat last year’s time of 1:07:14 in the Niagara Try-a-Tri
- Get back to running 5k+
- Ride 200 km in 2 days at the Ride to Conquer Cancer
- Try skating
- Do 100 push ups in a row
- Do a handstand push up
- Exercise or do something active every day
- Cook 95% of what I eat
- Fit into size L shirts again
- Try skiing again
- Ride in the trees
- Do both a FS and BS boardslide on a box
- Comfortably do all 4 types of 180
- Go on a snowboarding trip with my little brothers
- Do a nose grab, tail grab and method
- Put together a new snowboarding video
- Go to the zoo
- Go to a Jays game
- Go to a Leafs game
- Go to a TFC game
- Go to the CNE
- Go to the science centre
- Go to the Tim Burton exhibit at the Lightbox
- Go on a brewery tour
- Explore an old cemetary
- Go to the Drive-in
- Go to Honest Ed’s
- Go to the Art Gallery
- Go to a big music festival
- Go to Vermont
- Go to Buffalo with MicHELLe
- Go to Detroit with Myla and Nix
- Go to Niagara Falls
- Go to Vegas
- Explore the following neighbourhoods in Toronto: The Annex, Yorkville, Seaton Village, Little Italy, Kensington, Liberty Village, St. Lawrence, Cabbagetown and Harbourfront
- Go camping somewhere new
- Move out of Mississauga
- Spend a day at the island
- Learn to cook a paella
- Try 2 new recipes every month
- Make a Turducken from scratch with Shayne
- Make sushi
- Go shopping at St Lawrence Market
- Have brunch at the Hoof Cafe
- Eat a tasting menu
- Bake and decorate a cake or cupcakes
- Eat 10 new things
- Master one illusion really well
- Learn to create a life cast
- Take a cast of my face and sculpt it into a zombie bust
- Make a set of clay figurines
- Make a Halloween costume from scratch
- Finish my Halloween painting
- Make a haunted gingerbread house
- Read: Rework, The 4-Hour Body, The Power of Less, Pound for Pound, The Gift of Fear, It’s Not About The Bike: My Journey Back to Life and The Real Bling
- Redesign the zombie walk page and setup the store
- Learn search engine optimization
- Learn 5 more effects in After Effects
- Learn joomla
- Learn JQuery
- Learn AJAX
- Learn Selenium
- Learn OpenID / FBConnect / Google Friend Connect
- Launch zombiepedia website!
- Launch portfolio site
- Build a facebook app
- Take a night class
- Get a raise
- Earn 15% of my income outside of my regular job
- Teach someone something
Have I really not written here in almost 2 months?
by A Man Reborn on Nov.08, 2010, under Motivation & Goals
Hello blog – been a while! I haven’t written in here since about halfway through September, which coincidentally is right about when I started really getting into the full swing of the Halloween season.
The last few weeks have been pretty damn fun and full of all kinds of random good times. Spent many fun times with lots of good friends and basically just had a blast and was too busy to really do much writing!
Had one last Halloween party on the weekend, but now that the season is pretty much over it’s back to the norm for me. I’ve been thinking a lot about everything that’s happened in 2010 and I’m really stoked about how my year has gone so far. I’ve made some progress in almost every area of my life that I wanted to improve with the exception of one – my fitness.
I’ve had a hard time keeping a consistent workout schedule in 2010 and I’ve gained some weight back. Anyway, thanks to some inspiration from my girl and another buddy of mine, I’ve decided that enough is enough and it’s time to reclaim the progress I’ve made earlier. It took some sacrifice before and it’s going to take that again and I’m ready for that and I want this in the way that I am willing to commit myself to making it happen.
I know that once I get started I will keep going for a while, so I’m going to try giving myself a bigger push at the start and challenging myself more. So for the rest of 2010, I’m going to work out a minimum of 30 minutes a day with no exceptions. I’ll be logging all my work outs and my weight every Monday – starting today at 258.
2010 has been an awesome year so far and it’s time to finish strong.
5 Habit Changes – a week later
by A Man Reborn on Aug.17, 2010, under Journal
It’s been a week now since I decided to change some habits so I thought I’d take a sec and see how it’s been going for me.
1. Stop complaining without doing anything to remedy the situation
This has been going well. I don’t think I’m much of a complainer to begin with but I think the main benefit I’ve seen from this is the increase in awareness I have about my thoughts. I’ve had a lot of work-related stress this week but have kept surprisingly upbeat about it.
2. Cut back my meat consumption by 25%
This has been pretty easy so far. Planning a big tofu stir fry which should cover a couple of days.
3. Keep a food journal
I’ve been about 75% on this and will be 100% this week.
4. Follow a morning ritual
Got a good suggestion from John to move my alarm to the other side of the room. I’ve been liking this habit – gets me started on a positive note.
5. Intense exercise at least 4 times a week
Biggest difference maker so far I think. Went to Muay Thai, did weights a couple of times and did some biking. Right now my legs are really sore in that amazingly good way that only comes from heavy squats.
It’s going good. It’s amazing what a difference a week can make. I don’t know if it’s just the exercise or a combination of everything, but I’ve felt amazing all week and full of energy, despite working 80+ hours over the last week and hardly getting any sleep.
Also came across this quote – not sure what the origin is but it really struck a chord with me considering my experience over the last week of change.
Watch your thoughts: They become your words.
Watch your words: They become your actions.
Watch your actions: They become your habits.
Watch your habits: They become your character.
Watch your character: It becomes your destiny.
Love it!
Back to Muay Thai / 5 habit changes over the next 3 weeks
by A Man Reborn on Aug.11, 2010, under Journal, Motivation & Goals
So, first off – I went to Muay Thai class for the first time in a long while. Today was nice and humid and the warm up nearly killed me (sprints!), but hey – this is my punishment for having neglected my cardio for so long. I will suck it up and deal, because I know it will get better shortly.
It’s kind of strange to see what knowledge / technique I retained from when I used to go often. Keeping my hands high at all times is no problem for me even when my shoulders burn with fiery pain. Getting tagged more than enough times because my hands were low will do that. But, it was good to come back and it felt great to do a really intense workout.
Moving on… I’ve always had issues with motivation. Sometimes it seems like my motivation comes and goes like the wind. I am going to spend some time trying to figure out exactly what triggers these motivation state changes for me so I can use them to my advantage instead of the other way around. What I do know is that when I am in a good state, there is little to nothing that can stop me. So I’m going to ride this wave and make some changes. Gonna pick up some new habits and reclaim some others that I’ve let slip. My immediate focus is to be super-strict on these for the rest of the month – I started yesterday, so that’s 21 days – in my own experience 3 solid weeks is enough time to make a lasting change.
So, here goes:
1. Stop complaining without doing anything to remedy the situation
This came from an article on Tim Ferriss’s blog. I’m a big fan of his book, The Four Hour Workweek and I’ve implemented some of his basic ideas with positive effects. I’m also working on an even bigger change, but that’s a whole other post for later. Anyway, the idea is to not describe a person or event negatively without indicating some steps to fix the problem that prompted the reaction in the first place. To remind me, I’ve got a blue rubber band on my left wrist. If I slip up, it goes to the other wrist. I’m big on the idea that thoughts become actions, so this makes sense to me.
2. Cut back my meat consumption by 25%
For a number of reasons I am going to cut back on the amount of meat I consume. I’m going to start by cutting it down by 25%. I’m not going to do any set plan ala Meatless Mondays – just going to make sure that at least 25% of my weekly meals don’t contain meat. Which leads right into my next change.
3. Keep a food journal
In the past my best results at getting in shape have been when I kept a detailed food journal. I’ve got an iPhone coming in the mail soon which will make this a cinch.
4. Follow a morning ritual
Another belief I’m big on is that your mental state controls your outcome. Starting the day off in a negative state can quickly spiral into a bad day overall. The morning ritual is designed to put me in a positive state of mind where I’m ready to take on the day properly.
- Wake up – don’t snooze, don’t toss – when the alarm goes I’ll pop out of bed like a bat out of hell and open my blackout curtains to get some sunshine in the room.
- Drink a big glass of water – morning = dehydration.
- Move and get the blood flowing – anything really, just 5-15 minutes of quick exercise.
- Listen to a motivating song.
- Read my goal list and feel and envision how I will feel when I achieve them.
- Think about things in my life I am grateful for.
- Clean myself up – groom, dress, etc. – self explanatory – but with a little more attention to detail.
- Cook breakfast and prepare my lunch.
5. Intense exercise at least 4 times a week
Another habit that I’ve fallen out of with a negative result on my body and my mind. Intense exercise does amazing things for me. I think clearer, feel better and just plain feel great. I’m writing this hours after a hard Muay Thai class today and I’m completely awake, full of energy and super focused. The next 3 weeks are also going to be ridiculously busy at work. One of my problems has been that I allow myself to make work an excuse to not workout. This is just bullshit – there’s always time and the net result is that I have more energy and am more focused so if I am super busy it’s to my benefit to fit in a workout.
21 days (20 now, as I started yesterday technically) to go. It might look like a lot, but each is a small change when broken down. I know myself and I know that right now I’m in a hyper-motivated state so it’s a good time to tackle these. When I make these into established habits then it will be easier to keep my momentum going when this state of motivation wears off – and it will.
Things I am grateful for
by A Man Reborn on Jul.20, 2010, under Journal, Motivation & Goals
Took a few minutes this morning and thought about what I am grateful for in my life:
- I have no major health issues – knock on wood – and I am taking steps to keep it this way – I also have access to health care if necessary
- I have a roof, a fridge full of food, a car and a stable job
- I have an amazing family that has always been there for me unconditionally
- I have some true friends – people I would do anything for
- I have the privilege of choosing what I want to do with my life – I am not oppressed in any way due to the luck of the draw of where I was born
- I have had the opportunity to travel and experience many different things
Negative thoughts may sometimes creep into my head, but reminding myself of these things will always kick me back into reality. The reality is that even though I have aspects of my life I am working on improving, overall I have plenty to be thankful for already and I am happy and grateful because of this.
What are you grateful for?
100 Things I Will Do In 2010 – July Update
by A Man Reborn on Jul.16, 2010, under Motivation & Goals
I haven’t been keeping this list updated monthly like I said I would… mostly because I’ve been busy doing the stuff on it :D
I have no idea if I’ll finish the list – at this point it’s halfway through the year and I’m just over a third done. No matter what, I’m having a blast and expanding my horizons and that’s all that matters as far as I’m concerned. Having this list around has given me something to shoot for, something to push me a little more and something to branch off into other fun things to do. I’ve got an Evernote document with a increasingly massive list of things I want to try / accomplish now. Some of them are simple and some of them are outlandish and I know that every year I’m going to repeat this process and pick out a bunch of things that I want to take a shot at.
As my good friend Carolina told me tonight – “why lead a boring life, do EVERYTHING”. I want to do everything. There’s so much to see, smell, hear, taste, touch and experience in the world and I want to do all of it or at least give it my best shot. I want to create more – I am often most content when I am working on a craft or project of some kind.
“I say never be complete. I say stop being perfect. I say let’s evolve.” – Tyler Durden – Fight Club by: Chuck Palahniuk
I am happy and content with my life, yet I am not content at all. I’m really not sure how to articulate that feeling. All I know is the spark I feel and the smile on my face when I’m trying something new. Anyway, on to the list! (continue reading…)